Hi everyone,
Sorry I have been absent the last few days. A lot to process and deal with. I came back to his room today to try and tie up some loose ends and I am definitely have more difficulty being here than I though I would – lots of emotions!
I wanted to thank you all for the beautiful tribute in memory of Tom – I did log on the following day and saw all the wonderful comments directed at both of us. He would be very pleased!
I am in the process of managing things – I know that he had it set up to have a video tribute in memory of him through Neptune, but not quite sure how that all works yet. I will keep everyone posted.
Again thank you all for your support and kind words. Tom was a special man and has left a big void for me.
Take care all and I will be back soon.
Wendy
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So nice to hear from you. We have all been wondering/worrying about how you were doing.
Yes, I’m sure it’s very difficult going back to Tom’s room with all of the memories you had from all these years.
Losing someone close to us is so hard. We know that Tom isn’t suffering any longer, that he’s at Peace with his new life up above.
Grateful for you being there. Appreciate all that you’re still doing.
Please remember that we are all here for you. If you need anything let us know.
Prayers being sent your way.
God Bless you, Wendy, you’re one special angel.
Take care,
Hugs Colleen
Dear Wendy, you have made my day. I am sitting here waiting for a grocery delivery, away from my desktop, trying to use an outdated laptop which is slower than snailmail, and feeling guilty not to be on top of every comment. Now I shall calm down and do my best to just wait until everything is here and put away.
I know that, from so many miles away, we can’t just walk into the room and help you sort things (I’d be useless anyway), but I know you will let us know what we can do to help when we can. Thank you so much.
My last Aunt’s remains were handled by Neptune, and all my first and second cousins (all four total) sailed with them. They didn’t send me a video, but they did send me pictures. Of course they all still live in California. I was sorry to miss it but grateful that they shared. And that is just about all that I know about it. I’d imagine Terry and Sandy from the prison volunteer group will want to go, and if they know any former inmates now free some of them too … if they can, of course. But that’s just a guess.
Awwww….Hi, Wendy! Good to hear from you!
How wonderful and sweet of you to write to us.
I am sure that it’s been hard on you too, with TomCat’s passing, handling and going through his possessions, and remembering his daily routine(s) that you both shared. Lots of wonderful memories in his room too. Yes, he was loved, and will be missed…he was a good, kind, and sweet man. I miss the routine he had. I miss him.
Thank God, that he met you, as you were picked to be his caring Angel here on Earth. You were profoundly wonderful, and empathetic with your acts of compassion in taking care of him on your visits. I know that you miss him too.
Thank you so much for all you’ve done for Tom, and for your love to him. You were his Blessing through the good, and the bad times. You were always there, caring for his needs, and keeping him company. Thank you for all your acts of Love.
Hugs and Love sent your way, WWWendy. Thank you.
Amen to all of that, Pat!
So nice to “see” you, again, Wendy!
I can only imagine what it must be like to be back in TC’s place, without him there. I am not a religious person, so I won’t “Bless!” you, but I can tell you that your helping TC, and the way you went about it, apparently with all your, I expect, very large heart, have been expressions of the best of being a beautiful human being.
I will be looking to your keeping us posted.
Thank you for being the wonderful person you are and giving us an update while taking care of TomCat’s business. I can just imagine how hard that must have been to return to his room, even though he didn’t occupy it very long, and especially to ty up loose ends in the knowledge that it may be the last things you can do for him. Except for terribly dreary paper stuff, which Nameless can tell you all about. It’ll have little to do with our Tom, though, and absolutely nothing with the wonderful man he was.
Take good care of yourself, Wendy. Make sure you give yourself some time to grieve for the loss of your and our dear friend.
Amen, and amen.